Must-Knows: Outlier Training Notes

Hard-won lessons from decades of language learning, to help you become a better learner

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One of the most painful moments in my Mandarin learning happened after I was already fluent.

Not “I can order food” fluent, but "I'm doing a PhD in Chinese in Taiwan" fluent.

I had already spent
years in graduate school in Taiwan.

I was studying alongside native Mandarin speakers.

I could speak Mandarin at a high level and discuss research with academics. I could understand academic Mandarin. I could read difficult books and papers in Chinese.

So, I thought I was doing pretty well.

Then I was attending a seminar on historical linguistics and paleography, and two of the linguists pulled me aside and gave me the bad news:

"Ash, your tones are terrible. You really need to do something about it."

That was
not fun to hear.

Especially because they were
right.

I
knew my tones were a problem. But I didn't really know how to fix them.

And the worst part was that I had put in a lot of work already. I wasn't lazy. I wasn't unserious. I had spent
years studying Mandarin.

I had just trained the wrong way.

Like a lot of learners, I was trying to
think my way into good pronunciation.

I memorized pinyin.

I thought about tone charts.

I tried to reconstruct pronunciation in real time while speaking.

And it didn't work.

It
couldn't work.

Because pronunciation is not something you master by
thinking harder or learning more.

You master it by listening carefully, imitating native speakers, and repeating the correct version enough times that your mouth starts to know what to do.

In other words, you master the thing by training the thing.

That seems obvious in retrospect.

But it took me
years to really understand it.

That experience changed the way I think about language learning, and has influenced everything we do here at Outlier.

Because a lot of learners are not failing because they're lazy or "bad at languages."

They're struggling because they're
using the wrong training model.

They're trying to build Mandarin from memorized words, grammar rules, pinyin spellings, and intellectual understanding.

Those things have their place, but they are not enough.

Over the next few emails, we're going to walk through some of the most important lessons we've learned about how Mandarin
actually gets trained. The Mandarin MUST-KNOWs!

Speaking.

Pronunciation.

Grammar.

Characters.

Vocabulary.

The goal is simple:

Help you avoid wasted effort.

Help you understand what to focus on.

And help you train Mandarin in a way that
actually leads to usable ability.

Correct thinking leads to correct doing, and we want to show you a better way to think about language learning.

Tomorrow, we'll start with speaking, and we'll lead with one of the most important principles in language learning:

There's only
one way to learn to speak a language: imitating native speakers.

Talk soon!

-Dr. Ash

Continue the series

Deepen your understanding with more lessons in this series

Speaking

#1: There’s only one way to learn to speak Mandarin

#2: You can’t think your way to better pronunciation

#3: Native speakers don’t speak from grammar rules

#4: Why you understand Mandarin but can’t say it

#5: Don’t practice until you get it right

Pronunciation

Forthcoming!

Grammar

Forthcoming!

Characters

Forthcoming!

Vocabulary

Forthcoming!

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